Dearly beloved, our company is obtained here right now to cope with this thing also known as⦠a period finale! Yes, it’s real, this occurrence marks the end of absolutely the blockbuster which was S2 of
Wait, Is It A Date?
And to commemorate that finishing, which preferable to think about it and discuss the joys and achievements of an extended distance crush, than actor and queer person Elise Bauman? You could know Elise from life’s wonderful queer xmas rom-com that can come away a year ago,
Beneath The Christmas Time Tree
,
but around these elements, she has another concept this is certainly nearly as vaunted: Drew’s girlfriend! Yes, yes it’s true, this gleaming twosome had been birthed from the great queer tradition: the long distance crush.
But what could it be about the cross country crush definitely so appealing to queers around the world? Is-it the family member scarceness of like-minded queers close to you? possibly the power to flirt cross country takes a few of the stress off? The 3 folks get into the whole thing, AND Drew and Elise show some probably TOO lovable factual statements about their own commitment!
As well as there is certainly a-game! This week, we make Drew play the video game that simply took more than Twitter and Tiktok for a couple fleeting months: “They may be a 10 but⦔ its a good time, throughout!
SHOW NOTES
+ Follow Elise on
Twitter
and
IG
!
+
Browse Drew’s meeting with Jinx Monsoon
!
+ Enjoy
Bend it Like Beckham
,
it however rocks!
+ Johnny Sibilly’s thighs are⦠undoubtedly very compelling!
+ will likely Shortz is certainly the name of the NYT Crossword publisher!
*the much more you know*
EPISODE
Elise
: following we had gotten off the telephone, right after which we both hopped on the phone two seconds afterwards we’re like, “so that the border is closed, the audience is legitimately banned to truly go over the edge.”
Christina
: i am talking about, top among certainly my favorite sound memos and even messages i acquired from Drew, i can not remember which kind it was available in, it had been love, “we made this plan and from now on the edges tend to be shut.” Yeah.
Elise
: Yeah, it actually was a genuine second.
[theme track performs]
Drew
: Hi, I Am Drew.
Christina
: And I Also’m Christina.
Drew
: And this is
Wait, So Is This A Date?
Christina
:
Hold Off, Is It A Romantic Date?
is actually an Autostraddle podcast brought to you by me obtaining giggles, as well as the question that will be on everybody’s lip area, wait, was this a date?
Drew
: we are at the conclusion of our very own second period, and I also think we solved it, I think.
Christina
: Yeah, i do believe I’m just taking huge finale energy, like when comedies used to be before a facility market, and everyone would walk-in and there was an hour of applause as it was actually like, this is the final, that’s how I’m feeling. Though is obvious, not one person has actually applauded me however, hateful. Thanks, thanks a lot. Today I believe liked and used. Drew, that you?
Drew
: Oh wow, forgot about that component.
Christina
: Yeah, proper?
Drew:
Possibly season three I’ll obtain the intros. I’m Drew Gregory, Im an author for Autostraddle, a filmmaker, a queer trans lady. You know what, i believe whenever we carry out another season i wish to have a fun one I throw in towards the end.
Christina
: Ooh, anything spicy, you need to jazz it?
Drew
: Yeah, There isn’t such a thing today though.
Christina
: Okay, leave all of them wanting more, In my opinion which is fantastic.
Drew
: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Christina
: i’m Christina Tucker, i’m also a writer at Autostraddle, plus the internet at large. A podcaster, a gay Ebony lady, and somebody who’s sensation pretty jazzy right here on this subject mid-day.
Drew
: Great, i am really pleased you are flashy and I also’m spicy, or perhaps i am planning for the chance that sooner or later i’m going to be spicy.
Christina
: Yes you are like, I don’t know, the most important 1 / 2 of the movie Dune, the spice comes. Cool reference, girls, she’s single. In any event, i actually do have a game for all of us to relax and play on this hollowed day of our finale.
Drew
: Incredible.
Christina
: This is the traditional, and by traditional I Am Talking About a game title that annexed the net and TikTok for 2-3 weeks, “They Truly Are a 10, but⦔
Drew
: Ah, great.
Christina
: today Drew, i will lay out some soil regulations available, because I’m sure you like a follow-up question.
Drew
: Great.
Christina
: As I say they’re a 10, they can be a 10 for your requirements in any way that matters to you, which can be actually, which can be emotionally, this is simply a person you are feeling is a 10, okay?
Drew
: Okay, ok, thank you so much.
Christina
: i really do have no scenarios for what otherwise you inside individual have now been undertaking in your online dating existence, you are merely probably have to go along with your instinct and determine.
Drew
: Cool.
Christina
: okay?
Drew
: Yes.
Christina
: we will put in which make that obvious, here we get. They are a 10, however they clap once the jet countries.
Drew
: i usually decided individuals were too dramatic with this particular, where it’s like they are a 10 which thing makes them check-out a two, seriously.
Christina
: Yes.
Drew
: and so i’m planning nevertheless offer a pretty good eight.
Christina
: Yeah, i believe that is fair. In my opinion eight could be the appropriate quantity of cringe reduction for this little activity. All right, this will be the beginning. Okay, they’re a nine even so they never ever text you first.
Drew
: and that I are unable to ask followup concerns?
Christina
: No, no, no.
Drew
: therefore i can not ask, well do they content me back when we text? I would state a five.
Christina
: Yeah, not texting first previously, which is rough.
Drew
: Actually ever is actually unusual.
Christina
: That’s rough material. Okay, they might be a five but they drive that every errand you have ever had to perform.
Drew
: which is great, but i really could always⦠If there had been five, I’ll give him a six.
Christina
: Sure, sure. But i am aware you like a solo jaunt anyhow, you love an errand run.
Drew
:i am talking about now my personal girlfriend Elise performed drive me to an errand, and I also had been very grateful, but if that was the thing she performed we wouldn’t take a relationship, that was merely an extra little nice extra.
Christina
: i do believe that’s reasonable.
Drew
: Yeah.
Christina
: All right, they have been a seven however they just pretend to read through work.
Drew
: See the element of that that bothers me may be the pretend.
Christina
: Pretending, I realized it would be.
Drew
: it isn’t the maybe not checking out it. When they failed to read could work it is like, I am not that, I would be just a little, it really is like never ever? But it’s okay, i possibly could overcome it. Even so they sit in my experience about that is exactly what’s strange to me, to ensure thatshould go lower to a three.
Christina
: Yeah, correct, correct. These are generally a three nonetheless they gain access to the criterion dresser.
Drew
: And perform I have one go?
Christina
: and you also have access, you benefit from that access, yes.
Drew
: i really could have an excellent fling thereupon six.
Christina
: i believe you might. It absolutely was a three, but yeah, you are knocking it up to a six.
Drew
: No, no, no, that is what i am claiming, i am knocking it to a six.
Christina
: Gotcha, gotcha. I love that. They truly are an eight but their buddies are directly.
Drew
: Okay, there clearly was some discourse relating to this, because i believe there was a you will need help. In my opinion I maybe ended up being from the opposite part of many regarding the Autostraddle team whom said that it really is good to only have direct friends. I would like to claim that truly good, it is simply not living We lead. All directly pals, that will choose a two.
Christina
: Yeah, i’ll must go along with you on that one, I would just find it some troubling, confusing.
Drew
: All right pals?
Christina
: Yeah.
Drew
: if they are not used to queerness and are attempting to meet a lot more queer men and women, that is unique of if they are an existing period queer that’s similar, you know what? I really like being the main one lesbian inside my friend gang of direct men and women.
Christina
: Yeah, i might have the same way if this was an Ebony one who was actually like, “I don’t have any Ebony buddies,” i’d end up like, “what’s happening there?” Internally.
Drew
: we aren’t in a system sitcom, we can’t have a token person.
Christina
: You don’t need to become token, you don’t need to do that to yourself. Okay, there is three more. These include a seven nevertheless they spend-all their time in the gym, consistently strength training along. I am not sure what folks would in the gym.
Drew
: all their spare time. I guess it depends on which counts as sparetime. We’ll say a five.
Christina
: Yeah.
Drew
: we’ll bump all of them down two.
Christina
: Bump them down.
Drew
: But that’s okay. I assume this will depend mainly personally, that I’m perhaps not asking a take concern, i am keeping five, however it depends to me what counts as free-time.
Christina
: Positive.
Drew
: are we able to view motion pictures together, or go out to eat, is the fact that free-time? Is not operate time free-time, or is it like as soon as we don’t have other pursuits?
Christina
: we hear you, we notice you.
Drew
: But we’ll stick with five.
Christina
: All right. They’re six, but their mom is actually hotter than these are generally.
Drew
: Oh, I don’t know to move up or down.
Christina
: I’m sure, appropriate?
Drew
: I do not believe i possibly could actually date someone for their⦠It really is like easily’m perhaps not keen on some body to start with, i am perhaps not will be matchmaking them.
Christina
: Correct.
Drew
: I’m not going to be like, really, they might become their hot mommy. In my opinion I’d claim that they may be however a six, I’m only gonna perhaps not refer to them as and I’m attending phone their mommy.
Christina
: Yeah, I feel want it’s as if you stay equivalent, but perhaps we go out along with you somewhat longer than I would so as-
Drew
: That’s an excellent point.
Christina
: receive some mommy time. I do not think you alter.
Drew
: I did some thing really bad that I nonetheless think terribly about, and that is that a person requested me aside, and this was while I was at university, and I was not curious, and so I was obvious about that, I was obvious I becamen’t interested. Then again she wanted to be friends, and I could tell that she mentioned she desired to end up being friends it was coming from spot-
Christina
: She had been wanting.
Drew
: Yeah. Although thing is each of her pals had been actually hot and cool, I really performed stayed her buddy being hang out together friends. I didn’t sit about my personal intentions generally speaking, however it nonetheless was not the best thing Used to do as a 20 year-old.
Christina
: I mean regrettably it just reminds myself of these episode of
Sex additionally the City
where Carrie’s dating, I believe it’s Justin Theroux, and he sucks, but his family rocks, and she actually is like, I can try this for a bit. I’m like, yeah, absolutely, whom could not.
Drew
: Carrie was not trying to hook up together with his family, which is the huge difference, you know very well what? It really is great, all of us are good.
Christina
: A hookup will appear like anything, I’m always stating that.
Drew
: that is an extremely fantastic point.
Christina
: your own last one, is actually a three but has a coastline home.
Drew
: I’m planning to state an annoying phrase, but I visited NYU.
Christina
: terrible to state.
Drew
: something sucks about me personally, which this can be browsing sound like a modest boast, since it is really most likely an excellent fictional character characteristic, however it sucks as you going through the world. We went along to a school that is filled with rich those who have a number of awesome coastline houses, and all sorts of these other items, and I merely became friends with others have been here on scholarships. Besides, but mainly, we certainly, I didn’t make friends with people that has coastline residences.
Christina
: You Probably Didn’t use.
Drew
: Yeah, and so I believe if they’re a three even so they have a beach house, they’re most likely a-two. The actual fact⦠I’m not sure.
Christina
: Yeah, you only can not create that step to work with the sick coastline house minute.
Drew
: No, it sucks. Exactly what i am really wanting usually my buddies that rather down-to-earth, great people, many of them are just likely to always get that new cash then get beach residences, and i will be in a position to spend time with my fantastic pals and start to become at a beach household. This is the dream in which i really could obtain the coastline residence.
Christina
: That’s the fantasy at the end of the afternoon, its brand new money and a coastline residence, that’s all we are finding. You heard it here first individuals.
Drew
: I like brand-new cash.
Christina
: Love brand new money.
Drew
: Love brand-new money. Yeah, that was a delight. I would really, I would really been willing to play that game because it was actually something on TikTok, thus thank you in making my ambitions come true.
Christina
: I was thinking it would be a fun one to do, therefore was really fun to generate them.
Drew
: Well, should we move on to all of our primary section of this week, that will be slipping for those who are now living in additional metropolises. Which will be diverse from long distance connections, because long distance connections can begin really into an union, they are able to continue on into a commitment, this is the need that queer men and women have to examine their own location that they live and go, no, I’m not likely to flirt with one of these men and women, i will embark on instagram.com and discover someone who resides very far-away. And then we have actually a, i am aware we usually state a rather special visitor, however for me this really is a really special guest. Would you like to introduce yourself?
Elise
: I would personally like to present myself. Was I the unique visitor?
Drew
: You are, yes.
Christina
: kid, naturally.
Elise
: Great, wow, amazing. I am Elise Bauman, i am an actor, i am a queer person, and that I’m right here today because i am sleeping with one of many hosts.
Christina
: imagine which?
Elise
: Yeah, other podcast is simply the audience trying decipher which number I’m sleeping with. I love that, its like a murder secret but-
Christina
: there’s really no solution to know.
Elise
: there isn’t any option to understand. Yeah, does this create myself a nepotism child? Would be that the business really works.
Christina
: Yes, that’s how the business really works, babe.
Elise
: cool, nice.
Christina
: this can be it.
Elise
: Wow, perhaps i really could get a vocation using this.
Christina
: fingertips crossed for you.
Elise
: Nepo infant to career, wow, great. I’ve usually wished to be a nepo baby.
Christina
: i am thus grateful.
Drew
: Yeah, I found myself simply attending declare that for those who have no idea, well now I am damaging the murder secret from it all, but Elise and I are located in a connection, and performed start relationship through the pandemic, and Elise lives in Toronto, and I also live-in L. A., that are indeed different locations, and are usually actually in numerous countries.
Elise
: they have been certainly, they have been certainly.
Christina
: And Drew, not to say you moved against your very own instinct, but i actually do feel as if you are typically someone who says, precisely why bother with an extended range moment? You will find people right here I’m able to date, how come this to your self? You are sure that it will likely be difficult, you are aware it will be challenging, so why do this? But right here you might be.
Drew
: See, which is interesting, because i’m like I always appreciated to have a little of both, i recently believe I didn’t use the long distance ones perhaps because severely.
Christina
: perhaps that’s it, yeah.
Drew
: But i usually liked a long distance flirt.
Christina
: True.
Drew
: And so I think this only held going. Whenever we began-
Elise
: and so the answer, Drew, was not that I became just attractive plus it had been individual if you ask me, and this was actually very specific in my experience that I happened to be just surprisingly attractive which means you merely smashed your entire guidelines and also you said, “i need to have any particular one.”
Drew
: What i’m saying is it really is type of the clear answer in an extended sense. In the same manner this simply kept occurring. Right after which the friends of this pod, Mal Blum and Gab Dunn, whom we always live with, as some of you may already know, I would continually be like, I would be wanting to date men and women during pandemic in la additionally the encompassing aspects of l . a .. And they’d make enjoyable of myself because i’d often you need to be like, “What i’m saying is, i really could only try to date Elise Bauman.” I found myself always, “after all, {this person|this i
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